For couples therapists
You see them one hour a week. The fight happens in the other 167. Let’s Untangle is where your clients practice saying the hard thing so it can be heard, guided, in the moment, using the communication work you already teach.
A structured conversation tool built on Nonviolent Communication and Win-Win Communication, with an AI guide named Tara. One partner works through five steps (observation, feeling, need, appreciation, request) and arrives at a paragraph that can actually be heard. They send it as a soft invitation; their partner does the same; both sides are revealed together, and the couple can then talk it through with Tara moderating turns. Think of it as communication homework that supervises itself.
When a couple is in therapy, Tara positions herself explicitly as practice between your sessions. Large discoveries get steered to you, not resolved in an app.
As homework: “Before next session, each of you do one untangle about the thing we touched today. Bring the paragraphs if you’re comfortable.”
For the waitlist: couples who can’t see you for six weeks arrive at their first session already speaking in observations and needs instead of accusations.
Between the hard sessions: the mid-week flare-up gets a structure instead of a spiral, and what surfaces comes back to your room.
Clients can bring a clean printout of any reveal to session. You never need an account, a dashboard, or a login: you recommend, they practice, everything client-held.
The Exercises are guided versions of assignments you already give, with their lineage stated plainly: Gottman’s stress-reducing conversation and Dreams Within Conflict interview, Stuart’s Caring Days. You say “do the Dreams Within Conflict exercise on letsuntangle before we meet”; the structure holds them to interview format so it doesn’t collapse into the fight. There’s also The Weekly (a guided State-of-the-Union meeting) and a free mid-fight Toolbox with a flooding timer and repair phrases.
The Session Brief: clients can generate a one-page summary of what they worked on between sessions, their own words, recurring feelings and needs, and which exercises they completed, at /brief. It is assembled entirely on the client’s device and shared only if they hand it to you; consent stays where it belongs.
“I’d like you both to try something between now and next time. It’s a guided way to practice what we do here, fifteen minutes each, on your phones, separately. It will help you say one hard thing so the other can hear it. Bring what you wrote to our next session if you’re willing.”
Share this link with clients. It tells Tara they’re working with a therapist, so she stays in her lane and steers what matters back to your room:
lets-untangle.vercel.app/onboarding?from=therapist
No dashboards, no data sharing, and no referral fees: we don’t pay for recommendations, so the only reason to suggest this is that it helps your clients. Questions or a pilot conversation: reach us through the app, and a human answers.